Hello buzzman15!
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So I understand when I request an autograph I should send an SASE but I am a little uncertain of the return postage. Should I ask my local post office for the appropriate stamps for the country I am sending to e.g. USA? Or do I just send an IRC along with an SAE? I have seen people reccomending different options and was wondering if someone could please clarify this.
You can only use a SASE when you're sending to the same country which you live in, for example you live in the USA and you send to a celebrity who's agency is also in the USA.

If you're sending to another country than yuours, you'll need an IRC. I recommend sending at least 2 IRC's if your SAE is 8x6" and 3+ IRC's when it's 9x12". {thumb2}
Also I was wondering if anyone would be willing to post a copy of a letter they have sent which has been successful in obtaining an autograph. I know what to write and what to include I just want to know how others have worded things. I dont want to sound rude when requesting an autograph and dont know quite how I should word it
Address the person politely - Mr. or Ms./Mrs.

Your letter shouldn't be longer than
one page. I usually write one paragraph about the person's work and the next some info about myself which the celebrity would find interesting.

The last paragraph, I ask for the autograph. You can say:
"If it's possible, can you please send me a signed photo? I will appreciate it very much. Thank you Mr...."
or
"Can you please send me an autographed photo and, if it's possible, personalise it to me? I will be very grateful. Thank you..."
or anything really similar! {thumb2} Remember, it's
your letter - you can say what you want in it!
And finally do you consider a PP or AP good or bad? People speak of them as bad and I can kind of understand but it still isnt like everyone has an autograph from that person.
When I started collecting, I was quite happy to receive a pp or ap.

But since this year, I only write to those who would most likely send authentics.

Also, I mostly write via venue now as it's an easy way to get authentics from those who don't sign via agency. {thumb2} But it's up to you, it's your opinion if you want pp/ap and hopefully no-one would critisize it!
If you have any more questions, please feel free to ask!
Good luck collecting!
Lizanne