by quails23 » Wed Jul 18, 2012 7:17 pm
Hmmm interesting topic!
A friend and I have sent to one address recently and neither of us has heard back. I tried to my letter keep it short and sweet, in hopes that they would realize I mean no harm and I would be very happy to get a reply. However, I didn't make any notes about not sharing the address and so forth, partially because I thought it might be awkward or out of nowhere. Would I if I had been in less of a crazy/excited rush to send out my request? Maybe. But either way, I don't plan on posting it anywhere.
So....am I expecting something back? Not really. Am I still hoping? Yes, of course. But I fully respect their decision, whether a) they (or someone who works for them) tossed it right into the trash, b) read the letter and kept what I sent, c) want to send back but haven't yet or d) if the address was wrong altogether and the recipients had fun messing around with my stuff. That's fair.
Also, sending once (maybe twice) with correct materials, polite letter & the intent not to share the address, is not stalkerish imo. I see it as a genuine fan making an effort and taking a leap of faith, so that they can possibly get a reply from someone that is more difficult to reach by other means. Mailing gifts or trying to visit them at their house, that I would definitely not recommend!
I guess it just depends who finds this kind of information. I mean, I have another address, for one of my most wanted, that I'm almost completely sure is correct. But I'd rather try them via venue (perhaps more than once) and maybe TTM again. Use of the first address has been too emotionally difficult and I don't like it. lol
Hmmm interesting topic!
A friend and I have sent to one address recently and neither of us has heard back. I tried to my letter keep it short and sweet, in hopes that they would realize I mean no harm and I would be very happy to get a reply. However, I didn't make any notes about not sharing the address and so forth, partially because I thought it might be awkward or out of nowhere. Would I if I had been in less of a crazy/excited rush to send out my request? Maybe. But either way, I don't plan on posting it anywhere.
So....am I expecting something back? Not really. Am I still hoping? Yes, of course. But I fully respect their decision, whether a) they (or someone who works for them) tossed it right into the trash, b) read the letter and kept what I sent, c) want to send back but haven't yet or d) if the address was wrong altogether and the recipients had fun messing around with my stuff. That's fair.
Also, sending once (maybe twice) with correct materials, polite letter & the intent not to share the address, is not stalkerish imo. I see it as a genuine fan making an effort and taking a leap of faith, so that they can possibly get a reply from someone that is more difficult to reach by other means. Mailing gifts or trying to visit them at their house, that I would definitely not recommend!
I guess it just depends who finds this kind of information. I mean, I have another address, for one of my most wanted, that I'm almost completely sure is correct. But I'd rather try them via venue (perhaps more than once) and maybe TTM again. Use of the first address has been too emotionally difficult and I don't like it. lol