by dancingirl1 » Tue Jul 24, 2012 9:31 pm
clash6361 wrote:I've been looking at this forum for a long time, much longer before I registered and can I say firstly to:
dancingirl1: the vast majority of your posts seem to be accurate or close to realistic. if you say somethings fake, it usually is. HOWEVER, the way you say it provokes arguments
e.g.
this is how
I would say something:
Do you want opinions on authenticity?
*waits for a reply for yes*
I'm afraid that everything from Studio Fan Mail is a preprint, meaning the autograph itself is not real, and the celeb didn't read your letter. Regardless, it's a lovely photo!
This is the kinda thing you would say:
FAKE
Obviously AP
dancingirl1 wrote:
Like I already said, I know what you're
trying to do. It's not gonna work. LOL! They are real...if you wanna say "they are secs, prove that they are secs...and
post some examples and then come back to me.. And what do you mean? "I will not tolerate this!" LOL! You came to my post.
And u wanna call names like another immature child? Okay, you take that road, hopefully it makes u feel better
LMFAO!!
I mean you're
right dancingirl1, but
the way you say things can upset people. Like you say post some examples, yet you didn't post any, not only are you closed minded (anything anyone said wouldn't change your mind) but you say things like "LOL!" "LMFAO!!" and it can sound kinda arrogant.
I'm not asking you to change how you want to be, but maybe if you were a little bit more respectful (not when you say somethings fake it COULD be a big shock to them, and ruin their day :neutral: . )
The problem is I think you want to start fights. And its ok when it's a debate but you definitely exaggerate things.
Also I want to reply to this
"Ruining people's posts by saying the truth? "
You can say the truth without intimidating someone. Imagine you were a newbie and you thought SFM was real or whatever. THink how happy you would be. I agree it's best in the long run to tell the person the truth (that they are PP'S) but if you were them you would feel much better if it was said in a polite way instead of a way to make them feel like an idiot.
And you know exactly what I'm talking about.
It's really not nice, and I've put off entering this argument for a long time but looks like I've been dragged into it.
As you were say
LOL!
Okay, a couple of things:
1. If they don't want comments on authenticity, they usually say it in the MAIN post and i respect that. I won't comment on that if they don't want me to, but if I go in -to an "IS MY AUTOGRAPH AUTHENTIC" thread, H*ll yeah I'm gonna say something. And most of the time, it does't START OUT that way...@ FIRST I am nice about it. Like right here:
But I NEVER Start out being "rude" about it...if you can find an example then sorry. But @ first I Always start out with being nice. UNTIL The other user becomes a DELUSIONAL member who hates the truth. THEN I become cocky and rude like this:
I hope you don't think they are real! They are fakes. And think it's me being "jealous" I LOVE THAT YOU THINK THAT!! lol.
If someone could accept the truth when I comment on it the first time, my cocky posts wouldn't happen. And if I am going back and forth with the user and he REALLY thinks his PP's are original LOL, I cant even though they are in the same spot and the write size as the SFM pic...I don't get "rude" with someone until I am given a reason to. And I usually say "this isn't real" @ first...I'm not gonna kiss anyone's a$$ on this site (and how you say it: is kinda like you are kissing their a$$es on here and I'm not gonna do that). And it is REALLY funny that everyone here always picks on the bad things...and NO ONE says any of the good things I Do. I confirm addresses, find pics that people want, and answer questions from new members because they see that I know what the h*ll I 'm talking about. I get private messages a few times a day from people asking me questions. I am deemed the bad guy, but whatever. IDC anymore.
I will just continue to sat what I say. People wanna be drama queens, fine
[quote="clash6361"]I've been looking at this forum for a long time, much longer before I registered and can I say firstly to:
dancingirl1: the vast majority of your posts seem to be accurate or close to realistic. if you say somethings fake, it usually is. HOWEVER, the way you say it provokes arguments
e.g.
this is how [b]I[/b] would say something:
[quote]Do you want opinions on authenticity?
*waits for a reply for yes*
I'm afraid that everything from Studio Fan Mail is a preprint, meaning the autograph itself is not real, and the celeb didn't read your letter. Regardless, it's a lovely photo! {up}
[/quote]
This is the kinda thing you would say:
FAKE :roll:
Obviously AP
[quote="dancingirl1"]
Like I already said, I know what you're [i]trying [/i]to do. It's not gonna work. LOL! They are real...if you wanna say "they are secs, prove that they are secs...and [b]post some examples[/b] and then come back to me.. And what do you mean? "I will not tolerate this!" LOL! You came to my post. :) And u wanna call names like another immature child? Okay, you take that road, hopefully it makes u feel better {up} [b]LMFAO!![/b][/quote]
I mean you're [i]right[/i] dancingirl1, but [b]the way [/b]you say things can upset people. Like you say post some examples, yet you didn't post any, not only are you closed minded (anything anyone said wouldn't change your mind) but you say things like "LOL!" "LMFAO!!" and it can sound kinda arrogant.
I'm not asking you to change how you want to be, but maybe if you were a little bit more respectful (not when you say somethings fake it COULD be a big shock to them, and ruin their day :neutral: . )
The problem is I think you want to start fights. And its ok when it's a debate but you definitely exaggerate things.
Also I want to reply to this
"Ruining people's posts by saying the truth? "
You can say the truth without intimidating someone. Imagine you were a newbie and you thought SFM was real or whatever. THink how happy you would be. I agree it's best in the long run to tell the person the truth (that they are PP'S) but if you were them you would feel much better if it was said in a polite way instead of a way to make them feel like an idiot.
And you know exactly what I'm talking about.
It's really not nice, and I've put off entering this argument for a long time but looks like I've been dragged into it.
As you were say
LOL! :mrgreen:
[/quote]
Okay, a couple of things:
1. If they don't want comments on authenticity, they usually say it in the MAIN post and i respect that. I won't comment on that if they don't want me to, but if I go in -to an "IS MY AUTOGRAPH AUTHENTIC" thread, H*ll yeah I'm gonna say something. And most of the time, it does't START OUT that way...@ FIRST I am nice about it. Like right here:
[quote="dancingirl1"]This is fake...this is the SFM photo.
Look: http://www.fanmail.biz/mboard/viewtopic.php?f=121&t=114421&hilit=+email[/quote]
But I NEVER Start out being "rude" about it...if you can find an example then sorry. But @ first I Always start out with being nice. UNTIL The other user becomes a DELUSIONAL member who hates the truth. THEN I become cocky and rude like this:
[quote]I hope you don't think they are real! They are fakes. And think it's me being "jealous" I LOVE THAT YOU THINK THAT!! lol. [/quote]
If someone could accept the truth when I comment on it the first time, my cocky posts wouldn't happen. And if I am going back and forth with the user and he REALLY thinks his PP's are original LOL, I cant even though they are in the same spot and the write size as the SFM pic...I don't get "rude" with someone until I am given a reason to. And I usually say "this isn't real" @ first...I'm not gonna kiss anyone's a$$ on this site (and how you say it: is kinda like you are kissing their a$$es on here and I'm not gonna do that). And it is REALLY funny that everyone here always picks on the bad things...and NO ONE says any of the good things I Do. I confirm addresses, find pics that people want, and answer questions from new members because they see that I know what the h*ll I 'm talking about. I get private messages a few times a day from people asking me questions. I am deemed the bad guy, but whatever. IDC anymore. :) I will just continue to sat what I say. People wanna be drama queens, fine {up}
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