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i'm never going to see her again. :[

Posted: Thu Sep 11, 2008 12:43 am
by shannonod
so. my aunt died two weeks ago.
and her funeral was yesterday.
and she wasn't religous at all.
and i was thinking.
like i will NEVER EVER see her again.
cuz i'll be in heaven and she'll be in
*i don't even want to say it.*

it just really sucks.
i wish she could of been saved.
cuz i'm going to miss her so much.

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Posted: Thu Sep 11, 2008 12:58 am
by mhammen
Trust that God will look into her soul before passing judgment.

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Posted: Fri Sep 12, 2008 3:12 am
by osiris
I don't know if heaven exists, or if God is real (I'm not religious) but I do know that a person should be judged for who they are, and if they lived their life as a good person, then their religious choices shouldn't affect any afterlife they have. If you believe in an afterlife, then trust that your aunt was a good person in life and will be rewarded for that.

Besides, a person is never gone while you remember them.

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Posted: Fri Sep 12, 2008 3:56 am
by des liner
im not religious at all. i dont believe in a god or religions, just as half of new zealanders dont believe in a god. just remember them and they wont be forgotten as osris said ;-)

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Posted: Fri Sep 12, 2008 1:48 pm
by margotchanning
If every person that isn't a Christian goes to hell then hell must be a very crowded place. I believe religion is a simple story invented to give the living something to focus on. I don't believe for one minute that it affects what happens to you when you die. {thumb2}

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Posted: Tue Sep 16, 2008 6:34 am
by Gary2880
so. my aunt died two weeks ago.
and her funeral was yesterday.
and she wasn't religous at all.
and i was thinking.
like i will NEVER EVER see her again.
cuz i'll be in heaven and she'll be in
*i don't even want to say it.*
Then stop believing in such dribble and everything will be fine. :) She wont be in hell because hell doesn't exist, you won't be in heaven because heaven doesn't exist. Yet you still won't ever see her again because once your dead that's the end and you turn to dust. Your spot in the great human timeline has ended and nothing happens after it.

I hope that is of some comfort to you in your time of need.

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Posted: Tue Sep 16, 2008 8:22 am
by celebrityfan
Wow - what different beliefs.

I do believe there is a God, and I believe in Heaven and Hell. I don't believe that your actions should be judged on their own, just because you are a good person does not mean you do not have bad thoughts, bad morals, bad principles, etc. God will judge everyone for who they are inside, in their heart, and for one, I have asked Jesus to come into my heart as he sacrificed himself for my sins. Jesus was not a sinner, he performed miracles and healed people everyday, but he took the sins of others, and was crucified and killed because of it. He rose again 3 days later to show that he conquered death and hell...and I believe that happened, and there are at least 500 accounts from different people saying that Jesus was alive, despite the fact he was killed. Jesus was a good man, in actions and in his heart, but was crucified. Good works can get you so far on Earth, but God will judge people's hearts.

Shannonod, it is hard coping with a family loss...especially if they did not know God as their personal Saviour. Just remember the memories of her, and pray to God for help and support at this time.

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Posted: Tue Sep 16, 2008 8:44 am
by Gary2880
Oh my days.

It sometimes amazes me that we don't all still live in mud huts.

The poor human race. Why must people torture and put themselves down so. I'm sure you would be happier if you lived in the here and now rather than living for death. Very sad really.

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Posted: Tue Sep 16, 2008 11:11 am
by Imo
I am religious and i do believe in God and heaven. I am not sure about the idea of hell myself, but i do know that most Christians don't believe in it, because God loves the world enough not to put them through eternal suffering. I'm sure your aunt will be watching over you.

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Posted: Tue Sep 16, 2008 12:18 pm
by lizane
celebrityfan wrote:Wow - what different beliefs.

I do believe there is a God, and I believe in Heaven and Hell. I don't believe that your actions should be judged on their own, just because you are a good person does not mean you do not have bad thoughts, bad morals, bad principles, etc. God will judge everyone for who they are inside, in their heart, and for one, I have asked Jesus to come into my heart as he sacrificed himself for my sins. Jesus was not a sinner, he performed miracles and healed people everyday, but he took the sins of others, and was crucified and killed because of it. He rose again 3 days later to show that he conquered death and hell...and I believe that happened, and there are at least 500 accounts from different people saying that Jesus was alive, despite the fact he was killed. Jesus was a good man, in actions and in his heart, but was crucified. Good works can get you so far on Earth, but God will judge people's hearts.

Shannonod, it is hard coping with a family loss...especially if they did not know God as their personal Saviour. Just remember the memories of her, and pray to God for help and support at this time.
I agree 110% with Steph's post, it is exactly my thoughts and feeling too. {thumb2}

Thank you,
zanne