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i wonder why people are mean on here sometimes
Posted: Tue Feb 15, 2011 2:18 am
by harrypotterfan.
i do not understand something why are some people so mean on this board. everyone used to nice to each other but now when i read post some people are just rude and all you are doing is asking for help. like i do not stand when someone find a email or a other fan mail to write to person u want to write they do not give it out that makes me mad. that is why i have it been posting any of photos on here beacuse people can be mean about that also. for me im happy when people get there photos back singed and i would tell them the fan mail i used if they ask beacuse i like to help. but yeah i was just wondering if it was just mean who see this going on
Re: i wonder why people are mean on here sometimes
Posted: Tue Feb 15, 2011 2:30 am
by dueby_boys
robertpattisonfan wrote:i do not understand something why are some people so mean on this board. everyone used to nice to each other but now when i read post some people are just rude and all you are doing is asking for help.
Because you messaged me like 15 times and asked so many questions
and i was happy to answer them because I DID, didnt i?? There is nothing
more rude than to PERSONALY ask someone for help, and then go back
and ask the same questions again..why ask me for help then??
Re: i wonder why people are mean on here sometimes
Posted: Tue Feb 15, 2011 2:31 am
by harrypotterfan.
well i throught that i can ask other for there help also. but this is what making not want to come to back to this board.
Re: i wonder why people are mean on here sometimes
Posted: Tue Feb 15, 2011 2:46 am
by dueby_boys
robertpattisonfan wrote:well i throught that i can ask other for there help also..
yup u can now...
just please dont personally
message me anyone.
Re: i wonder why people are mean on here sometimes
Posted: Tue Feb 15, 2011 2:02 pm
by Tabby
There's 30,000 members on this board. What good would it be to post the email? All that would happen is the email getting spammed by people looking for a free autograph.
Also you posted the same topic in multiple boards..please don't. Make 1 and wait for a reply.
Re: i wonder why people are mean on here sometimes
Posted: Tue Feb 15, 2011 9:27 pm
by Zimmy
Just chill with the email stuff.
And don't ask for VV addresses for every movie.
Re: i wonder why people are mean on here sometimes
Posted: Tue Feb 15, 2011 9:31 pm
by dueby_boys
Zimmy wrote:Just chill with the email stuff.
And don't ask for VV addresses for every movie.
Hey

its not that i have an issue with the email stuff or
the fact that that usr asks for alot of VV things but when I
give you a FULL ADDRESS and answer 15 messages and you
STILL post "Help" lolz i think that is so rude, Like i could be helping
someone else with things u know? but thats the onloy issue that
i had..Like y ask 4 help if your not gonna use it?
Re: i wonder why people are mean on here sometimes
Posted: Tue Feb 15, 2011 10:10 pm
by Lucky Lorri
I've not really met anyone that I would consider to be mean here on Fanmail.biz, in fact I've made a great friend on here and I'm sure I'll become friendly with more members as time goes on.
People don't give out emails for fear of them being spammed, and of course, for fear of the 'money grabbing' people just wanting a quick free autograph. I think that is something that every personal autograph collector can understand, we don't want the people we admire being hassled at all by anyone that's not a true fan.
There is some secrecy I believe, obviously some people do know email addresses and VV addresses that they won't give out, but I don't think for one minute that it's because they're mean.
Due to the high volume of members on this site though, you're pretty much bound to bump into someone that is rude, but luckily for me, that has not yet happened

Re: i wonder why people are mean on here sometimes
Posted: Wed Feb 16, 2011 1:12 pm
by zzublue
dueby_boys wrote:Zimmy wrote:Just chill with the email stuff.
And don't ask for VV addresses for every movie.
Hey

its not that i have an issue with the email stuff or
the fact that that usr asks for alot of VV things but when I
give you a FULL ADDRESS and answer 15 messages and you
STILL post "Help" lolz i think that is so rude, Like i could be helping
someone else with things u know? but thats the onloy issue that
i had..Like y ask 4 help if your not gonna use it?
Well, I understand if someone asks for help about the same thing for multiple times, because although someone else tries to help, they couldn't have understood. But in this case, you gave that user obvious, practical help with a full address, so I agree with you that the user was being quite rude about it, as you were helping. I don't understand why he/she asked you so many questions over and over again either...