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Unread post by Chrissy »

Hello Everyone!!

It has been a LONG stressful day on Fanmail with all these people fighting, arguing and just being disrespectful to everyone and anyone without a reason. Thanks to everyone who have been working hard to deal with these people!!

It's unfortunate, but i must mention the dreadful recent abuse with regard of the reputation score system. MANY (and i do mean MANY) members are abusing their right with this system. Points are being given out with HORRIBLE tasteless comments which are really upsetting. Even when you ask people nicely to obey the rules of the forum, they don't listen, and when you try to help out with the situation, the come bashing at you with words and hateful comments. This is NOT right at all!!! It's getting rediculous really!!

The member: ianwzxr has been picking on cowboys and has given him 10 or 11 negative feedbacks, which are ALL rude and mean. He's also done this in a meer few seconds or mins. right after one another

http://www.fanmail.biz/mboard/profile.p ... m=0&u=5022

I'm really disappointed with how little people are respecting one another here. can something be done??

Chrissy :?
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This is a blatant abuse of the reputation system. I totally agree Chrissy, something needs to be done about it.

cowboys does not need that negative feedback under his name. It should be removed and ianwzxr banned.

That's not to say this is the only time the reputation system has been taken advantaged of. Other people have done similar things in the past, and we all must remain vigilant to detect such instances.

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What I was wondering is: can we establish a system for handling the abuse when it happens? I assume the first step is an informal warning via PM, then formal warnings, however I'm somewhat confused as to the severity of the abuse vs. the warning strategy. So if someone can help, that would be great :). These people abusing the system are really making me :x.
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And actually I sent cowboys and ianwzxr both PMs with verbal warnings, cowboys responded positively saying it wouldn't be happening again and this is the PM I just received from ianwzxr (who seems to "always be done with our site, yet KEEPS COMING BACK!)
ianwzxr wrote:Actually, I'm done with your site. It's ridiculous here. Too many moderators and not enough sense. Just ban me or elete my account or let it rot or whatever it is you do. Bye.

And plese do whatever you need to do to make sure I don't get any e-mails from this site, or I'll take whatever action is necessary to stop them myself.
Talk about ridiculous!!!!

This is what I've responded with and hopefully we'll never hear a peep from him again :):

First off let me correct you in a few critical errors that you've made.

First of all this is not "my site". Secondly, I have plenty of sense. Third of all, you keep repeatedly voicing that you're just too good for this site when you KEEP COMING BACK!!!!

And I don't know who you think I am...I do not control any e-mails from this site, etc. So don't even start that kind of c**p with me.
ianwzxr wrote:Actually, I'm done with your site. It's ridiculous here. Too many moderators and not enough sense. Just ban me or elete my account or let it rot or whatever it is you do. Bye.

And plese do whatever you need to do to make sure I don't get any e-mails from this site, or I'll take whatever action is necessary to stop them myself.
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Hi all :P

Unfortunately, as Chrissy says, today (or yesterday for some of us!) has been a very stressful day - indeed the most stressful and hateful I have seen in all my time on the forum :|

What we have to remember though, is that all this havoc was limited to an incredibly small group of members - 2 or possibly 3 in fact out of 5020 registered members.

We have resolved the situation with the main culprit BAMATWIT by banning him after giving him the required warnings. It then became clear that he had re-registered on the forum as TTMAutos and began the same thing again so I then banned all posting from his IP address.

This (crosses fingers) seems to have resolved that problem. :wink:

The other problem members ianwzxr and COWBOY seemed to be bickering mainly with each other via the reputation points system. ianwzxr has now pledged to leave the forum, and if this is the case then that problem should also now be solved :wink:

It is really regrettable that these few individuals gained such obvious enjoyment from their messing about on the forum, and I reiterate that no member or moderator is expected to put up with being verbally abused.
  • With regards to the system to adopt should such a situation arise again, then I would say firstly PM the member and ask them politely to stop doing what ever it is. Try to keep the PM as brief as possible along the lines of:

    "Dear Member,

    It has been brought to my attention as moderator of the forum that you have broken our terms of membership by . . . . (whatever / swearing etc).

    I would formally like to ask you to stop doing this. Failure to do so will result in the warning system being used, ultimately resulting in your possible banning from the forum."

    From experience this is usually enough.

    If the same behaviour continues then a moderator for that particular area of the forum should give an initial formal warning. Just be reasonable with the time length given. This will be a matter for the moderator to decide depending on the severity of the offence.

    The same proceedure applies to the second warning.

    Since the third warning will result in a ban I would suggest a further PM to the member warning them of this - they then have the opportunity to change their behaviour again before the ban.

    If the behaviour continues then the ban should be given by the moderator - making sure they are careful with their powers :wink:
I understand that things developed very quickly yesterday, and I am personally happy that everybody involved did everything they were required to do.

Let's now look forward to a more peaceful life on the forum :P

Thanks again everybody for your patience.

Ian :mrgreen:
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Ok...let me say I as well look forward to peace and quiet! On that note, of course, that moron ianwzxr has come back supposedly because he keeps getting messages the he has new PMs (I'm sure there's some mandatory about those messages that he just HAS to come back, right?). So basically he wants to be banned that way he will not get e-mails anymore and be drawn to this place. He is his reply from my last e-mail. I'm about ready to give him a warning myself.
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elmomommyto1 wrote:First off let me correct you in a few critical errors that you've made.

First of all this is not "my site". Secondly, I have plenty of sense. Third of all, you keep repeatedly voicing that you're just too good for this site when you KEEP COMING BACK!!!!

And I don't know who you think I am...I do not control any e-mails from this site, etc. So don't even start that kind of crap with me.
ianwzxr wrote:Actually, I'm done with your site. It's ridiculous here. Too many moderators and not enough sense. Just ban me or elete my account or let it rot or whatever it is you do. Bye.

And plese do whatever you need to do to make sure I don't get any e-mails from this site, or I'll take whatever action is necessary to stop them myself.
Then if it's not your site, and you have no control over it, then quit telling me how to behave.

And again, you people seem to be unable to read. I never said I was too good for the site, I just said that everyone was unfriendly when all I did was offer an opinion. And if you bothered to read my posts before you complain about them, you'd see that I said I wanted to figure out this situation before I left. And I did leave, but I keep getting e-mails telling me that I have a private message, and then I come here to see if it might help me figure this out, but it's just more b****ing. Quit sending me messages and I'll quit coming back. Twice I get bad "rep" points (like I give a s**t) from some guy called "Cowboys" and he just leaves sarcastic messages in them telling me I'm gonna be banned (again, for having an opinion, and not liking the unfriendly reception), so I return the favor for him, and I get the warning, not him. You people need help and a few people skills lessons.

Don't PM me again. Just let it go.

I DON'T WANT ANOTHER E-MAIL FROM THIS KIDDIE FORUM.
Any direction on how I should handle this???
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Just ignore him. He'll be banned before too awful long
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elmomommyto1 wrote: Any direction on how I should handle this???
I have deactivated his account together with his ability to PM. I have not actually deleted his account as I feel that Admin should have the final say on that.

Hopefully this should mean he will no longer receive PM's from the forum, and ultimately will not be able to respond via the forum even if he does.

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Unread post by elmomommyto2 »

Thanks Ian :). Now hopefully we can get back to peace, quiet and happiness :D!!!
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elmomommyto1 wrote:Now hopefully we can get back to peace, quiet and happiness :D!!!
One would think


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