rdf8585 wrote:I want to add that this might be a word of warning against writing "please hold for Person A on XX/XX dates" on the envelope - the only logical way my package could have arrived late was if the mailman who picked it up out of the mailbox saw that and mistakenly had the post office hold until those dates and THEN mail it out. That scenario makes sense. Needing more than 6 days to go from NY-MN doesn't seem plausible. If someone isn't familiar with autograph collecting, who's to say they know any better? This was the first time I put "please hold" on a via venue request. I had another VV come back last year without putting such a message on there (I didn't know about the "please hold" stuff then).
I ALWAYS put 'Please pass on for performance on & the date' on EVERY via venue request I send & have never had a problem.
I serioulsy doubt the post office OR a mailman would see that & hold on to a letter - there job is just to deliver, they dont care about special instructins written on an envelope - if they did DO NOT BEND might get more attention paid to it.