Should I be scared?

[MW1221]

Thank you all for your kind words, however there shall be no more updates.

Today, I got called into a dean's office and he asked me if I was obsessed/stalking her. It had nothing to do w/ this, but I'd rather not continue w/ something that could lead them to believe otherwise, should they discover it.

The most unfortunate part of all of this is the fact that today I got up the courage to talk to Jamie. And I did. Before any of this happened, I asked her in the hallway if she would be able to meet me after school in the school library. She said she might, but she has to make up a test, so she'd talk to the teacher. I said ok and we both went to class. Well, the dean is the one that told me that he had talked to her already, and that she told him to tell me, that she wasn't able to.

The dean then advised me against going anywhere near her or her friends.

[MW1221]

You're all going to call me an idiot, but I decided that a person should follow their heart instead of their head when it comes to situations like this.

So, I'm going to talk to her.

I at least need to straighten out the misinterpretations presented by the dean. Maybe more, but I doubt it. After all this, I can probably say that she's not going to go out with me. But it never hurts to try. That is, of course, unless you're as close to a restraining order as I am.

[chriscollector]

You have clearly crossed the line !!!! If an OFFICIAL needs to tell you stay away from another student, you are obviously not telling us the whole story. I tried to give you honest, EXPERIENCED advice, as well as many others, but you refuse to listen.
This girl is going to have you arrested. You make her feel uncomfortable, and wants you to keep away from her. If she was advised by her parents to tell the dean to handle the situation, you are headed for big trouble.
I have never had anything like this happen to me, or anyone of my friends. I've had my feelings hurt, heart broken, and a fair share of rejections, but I have had continuous girlfriends all my life. You need to move on my friend. You are headed for a world of trouble. You can not stalk a person, and once you have been confronted by a person in charge, adn you continue to cross the line, you will be expelled, arrested, or made a fool of. It's over.
I won't bother with this again. You don't want advice. You are looking for one of us to say "Yeah do it, you can win her heart" But it's not happening. Get the picture. Leave the poor girl alone. You making her so unvomfortable she need sot ask school officials to keep her safe. It needs to stop. Make a new friend and mayeb in tie it will blossom to more. It's a dead issue. AN dif you don't stop, someone will stop you. And I'm sure you don't want to have the reputation of a stalker fo rthe rest of your life. It's NOT COOL. Please man, move on, leave the poor innocent girl alone. She just wants to go to school and be normal. Thats not much to ask. She's obviously so uncomfortable with this she can't even talk to you abotu it. You have to stop this now.

[whosurdaddy]

Agreed. Could not have said it better.

[capsboy1]

Man, you were looking good until you just chose the most foolish decision... Good luck!

[footballer]

dude good luck

[MW1221]

Mmmhmmm.

The above isn't me following my head, but the advice of a friend of both mine and hers. I will say I have been thinking about this alot, and I will admit that to follow his advice would be foolish, idiotic, and above all else, just plain rude to myself and this girl.

My thoughts, combined with the words of chriscollector and whosurdaddy, have caused me to rethink the above decision and go on with my life. Not just for me, but for this girl, whom I would not want to do anything to upset.

So, it is with great sadness I come before you today, this 28th of January 2008, and obligingly follow the advice and wishes of those around me, and ignore this girl for me and her.

Thank you.

Was that moving or what? Come on, you had to feel something.

[hangman]

I think it's time this topic was locked! {thumb2}

PS. Yep, it was moving