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My friend is being mean to me

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My friend Jasmine is being really mean to me. Well we don't have much classes together anymore we only have lunch. And since lunch is the place to talk a lot of people are talking to me. And when she tries to talk to me plenty of other people are talking to me so I can't get to talk to her yet. But when I'm able to talk to her she already left. Now she thinks I'm neglecting her and she talking behind my back. She called me the "B" word. What should I do? Should I tell her parents?
I'm not ignoring her on purpose! Now she's sucking in my other friend too. She's making my other friend hate me too. And now they're talking behind my back and calling me the "B" word and laughing about it. The only reason they're close friends is because they're hating me.
I need help. :cry:
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She must be really insecure if she is talking bad about you because other people are talking to you when she wants to. What I am getting out of this is that she is jealous and wants the attention on her, so she is making people hate you and love her. I would just ignore her and I know pay-back isn't the answer, but try doing the same thing to her, and then confront her so she knows how you feel and it will probably stop.
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I kind of know how your friend feels. Like last year my best friend would do the same thing. All we had together was lunch and she would spend like the whole time talking to other people but me. I would just say try calling her more and even if you dont hang out too much at school like you should hang out like at the movies or mall or just your house. Then maybe you guys could still be friends and you wouldn't have her hating you and have rumors going around about you.

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Unread post by MYChEmIcAlRoMaNcEfAn »

thanks for the advice you guys :D i'll try them and see how it works out.


thats cool how you got to meet his family!
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[quote="Anonymous"]She must be really insecure if she is talking bad about you because other people are talking to you when she wants to. What I am getting out of this is that she is jealous and wants the attention on her, so she is making people hate you and love her. I would just ignore her and I know pay-back isn't the answer, but try doing the same thing to her, and then confront her so she knows how you feel and it will probably stop.[/quote]


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Don't worry about it hunni!

This has happended to me too in the past, and there have been time when the person who has interupted me I've had to say "I'm really sorry, but I'm talking to______, can I catch up with you later?"

But if your 'friend' is calling you the 'B' word, I'd ignore her, and the other girl. They'll grow out of it and you can totally find other friends that are more trustworthy.
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Unread post by MYChEmIcAlRoMaNcEfAn »

Ok, I tried all your advices and it worked! She's talking to me now, but I feel likes she still kind of hates me. But otherwise, everythings good {up} :mrgreen:
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